The Weekend Playlist

Another wicked good one… balanced by new favorites (Far East Movement) and old favorites (Stevie Wonder).

Headphones in, world out, HAPPY THURSDAY. Git down.

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January 2013: Hey, It’s OK!

I wasn’t sure if I wanted to continue this Hey, It’s OK column in this new year, after writing it religiously in 2012, but it seems I’ll always have a bunch of these statements floating around in my head that need to live somewhere and be shared.

Let me tell you that I get such a thrill and a peculiar sense of accomplishment out of the brainstorming and the creativity+authenticity and the writing it takes to putting my own Hey, It’s OK statements together. It feeds my self-deprecating humor.

And so I continue.

As always, thanks to Glamour magazine for the original inspiration for this column.

Hey, It’s OK…

  1. To be in a continual state of “where are my keys I lost my phone.” Thanks for articulating it to a T, Gaga.
  2. To not buy all the doom and gloom in the news.
  3. To read things the old school way. Printed newspapers, hard copy books, mailed letters.
  4. To tell your friends you love them, completely out-of-the-blue and completely sober.
  5. To choose fork-and-knife over chopsticks, solely based on extreme hunger.
  6. To go sledding when you’re 25. Nothing wrong with that.
  7. To divide the charms from the cereal in a bowl of Lucky Charms. And then split with a friend who only likes the cereal. Muhaha.
  8. To be unable to cook dinner without dancing around the kitchen.
  9. To have snacks on you at all times.
  10. To eat whatever you want to for breakfast. Leftover pizza? Steak frites and French fries? An enormous cupcake? A vegetable stew? Oh I could go on (from personal experience…).
  11. To troll the parking lot for 15 minutes waiting for the front row spot to open up.
  12. To be known for your laugh. Or your hair. Or your humor. Or something amazing and unique that is so very “you.”
  13. To denounce and eye-roll a television show but to also be unable to stop watching. A-hem, Bachelor.
  14. To clean up coffee spills with post-its.
  15. To have champagne on hand, always.
  16. To take extra caution stepping onto escalators and moving sidewalks. Is it just me.
  17. To like dressing up for the office but to immediately change into sweatpants when you get home.
  18. To believe Harry Potter got gypped all those years for an Oscar.
  19. To date the year 2012. We’re only 17 days in damnit!
  20. To not be careful of what we wish for. If we want it and get it, let’s just swan dive or cannonball right in. Flotation device optional.
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The Weekend Playlist

Whoa whoa whoa whoa WHOA.

Might be trying to quote Sandler in Billy Madison right there but regardless… whoa. This playlist is GOLD. I have been listening to each of these songs nonstop and not pushing the >>> button to go on to the next one. Happiest of Thursdays/almost Fridays to you.

Headphones in … world out. Natch.

PS. Next week’s even better.

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Intrigues in 2013

Less than a week into the new year and it’s already a good one. I…

+ rang in 2013 with Jocelyn running the Emerald Nuts race in Central Park. It was a party like no other in Central Park. Probably the best race experience I’ve had with NYRR. There was a band that was playing GOOD stuff, fireworks at midnight, and champagne at mile 2. Okay so it was actually sparkling apple juice BUT I think I could barely tell the difference at that point. And? I made it to the finish (though I have no idea of my time and feel no need to look it up), all thanks to Jocelyn who didn’t leave me behind. We had so much fun. Bucket list item success.

+ made a potential plan for a spring goal 5k (EEK).

+ drank my first (and last) 5-hour energy. Curiosity killed the cat. Noted.

+ began officially working in my new position. I’m so happy.

+ went out to dinner with my favorite Bostonians Alison, Jenna, Lindsay, and Anna at City Table. I loved getting to see them and I also loved every last bite of my steak frites and french fry dinner. So much so that I woke up on Saturday wanting it for breakfast.

+ shopped and caught up with my cousin. Sprung for red Toms at Nordstrom.

+ celebrated my godmother’s birthday with some of my family, including our Uncle Kev (a.k.a. Uncle Fun) who happened to be in town from California. My mom made chicken parm and angel food cakes, and there was a lot of wine in the house.

+ went out downtown. Sweat it out on the dance floor. Great night.

+ got Bagel World. Their bagels are too good to be true.

+ read the printed NYT from beginning to end.

+ grabbed lunch with a good friend.

+ watched the new Revenge and taped Good Wife. When Girls and Game of Thrones finally come back my Sunday night schedule is going to be nuts but I love it. I’m 25 year’s old, TV’s my life. …… Kidding. Kind of.

If this week is any indication of what’s going to happen this year, I’m very much on board. And I’m not making resolutions. When I went back to my 2012 goals post (not even linking to it muhaha) and saw how little I’d done by way of the list… but how much I’d grown and accomplished last year in actuality… I’m resolving not to create a road map for 2013.

But for sure the car’s in drive and the wheels are spinning. There’s just so much more of a chance I’ll truly experience and accomplish and DO when it’s not all planned out. I just love going with the flow, being open to anything and everything, working hard in a quiet way, and believing that wonderful things are always about to happen.

I have not a clue about what those things will be…… but isn’t it better that way???

For now, all I can say is that there are definitely things I am intrigued by… at least in this very moment.

Intrigues like… doing crossword puzzles, taking a golf class, opening a 401k, working on my impersonations of just about anyone from Effie Trinket to Kevin McCallister and T.Pain to Kristin Cavalleri, letting running just happen (more another time), travelling to new places, completing the 26 acts of kindness, painting a watercolor on a canvas, moving into Boston, and, of course, lots more.

I hope I end up doing most of those things… the latter in particular… but I also hope I end up surprising the hell out of myself come the end of 2013.

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The Weekend Playlist

The majority of songs on this playlist are slow jam GOLD. Really, really good. It’s even hard to call out favorites in this list, but I just have to call out…

  • All This Time :: One Republic
  • Lost and Found :: Katie Herzig
  • We’re Wild Animals :: Weaver at the Loom
  • The Time of Times :: Badly Drawn Boy
Happy first Weekend Playlist of 2013! Headphones in, world out. Listen, love.

Any new songs you are loving?

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Real World Wednesday: Life After the History Major

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013.

… 2013! I almost forgot already.

Real World Wednesday is BACK. At least for today. Might not come around again till April, with my track record.

Let’s roll.

Today I’d like to talk about a topic that has been on my mind a lot in the past several of months: the experience of a post-grad History major in the professional world. I’ve gotten a bunch of emails from you wondering how my experience in college prepared me for what I do now.

So…

    1. History majors
    2. Liberal Arts majors
    3. If you have ever been unsure (or have no idea!) about what you want to do after college
    4. If you are all of the above

I am number 4.

See what I did there?

Did anyone actually see that movie? … I definitely didn’t, but I’ll take it for a bad joke.

Anyway, whatever number you are. YAH YOU. This one’s for you.

Unlike the decision of what to actually do with my History degree, the decision of declaring the major was an easy one. I declared History as my major even before I went to orientation at Holy Cross. It was a bold move, but a sure thing.

It had become apparent to me that History was really the only thing I was truly interested in studying. The only thing I wanted to learn, to read, to write, and to discover in college. It had been the same growing up too. My love for it is something that makes me, me.

And History turned out to be the best thing for me to study in college because I had an innate, unquestionable, burning passion for it.

But once second semester senior year rolled around, I realized that I would be blasting stereotypes, as I would not be venturing off to law school or applying for a teaching job with a fresh History degree.

I really had no idea what I wanted to do and who I should contact about jobs that would be a good fit for the major on my degree. I didn’t know if interviewers and companies would see my degree as vague and limiting and unspecified and without practical training.

How would my passion for and knowledge of Gilded Age America translate into work at a future job that wasn’t being a teacher, librarian, or historian???

I eventually came to believe that my major prepared me well for life and work in the professional world. For any kind of job, really. It wasn’t what I learned/loved… every bit of 19th century America… or didn’t learn/hated in college… calculus and plant biology… but how I learned it and what I walked away with… besides being able to talk anyone’s ear off about the significance of the construction and opening day of the Brooklyn Bridge on May 24, 1883.

I’ll spare you that oration.

Instead I am here to tell you, all of you, that all of the papers and tests and group projects and office hours and presentations (that seem completely bull shit at the time) are worth it. These experiences WILL be put to good use after you earn the diploma. You WILL use the skills you picked up along the way, whether you’re conscious of them at the time or not.

In the end, it didn’t matter what major I graduated with… I been on a holy grail and back in order to graduate with indispensable professional (and LIFE) skills and passions, and that is what I believe will take me far in my career.

So what the heck are these famed skills and passions that can help earn you success and gain you notoriety among your co-workers?

I’ll tell ya.

  • Writing: A History/Liberal Arts major teaches you the WORD. How to read it, how to make sense of it, how to be smart about it, how to highlight the important points, how to be creative or analytical with it, how to edit it, how to craft it into something you’d want people to find intriguing. If you can master these tasks, you are setting yourself up for success at any job you try your hand at. And I guarantee you will be noticed and regarded for it.
  • Analyzing: Something else being a History major taught me is how to be inquisitive and how to interpret data to draw conclusions. This skill has really helped me at work, where a majority of my job is reporting on analytics in a thoughtful, clear, and concise way.
  • Presenting: Group/solo presentations seem to start early in life. I can remember memorizing some kind of poem to read in front of the class in 3rd grade. In college, it seems more of a challenge because the whole thing is more off-the-cuff and you’ve got to know your stuff and keep the audience interested and engaged. No recitation or reading off note cards. Same goes for the professional world. I’ve found I have to be able to talk off of slides and highlight the most important things and add in a little of my own commentary, showing how close I am to the topic. And that’s whether you’re in person with the group or presenting to, or on the phone or over the computer. It’s definitely not a skill I’ve even remotely honed, but one I hope to over the next year.
  • Discussion: While I enjoyed writing about historical events (after all the research was done…) in school, I also came to really enjoy talking about them with my classmates and professors. Going back and forth and tossing ideas off of each other helped in making sense of the issues on the table and understand why and how they happened. In the professional world, it’s so important to be comfortable discussing with co-workers issues and items on the table just like that. Everything is a TEAM effort.
  • Brainstorming: Talking through and coming up with new ideas and solutions and explanations = indispensable for as a History major and indispensable in the professional world. Not being afraid to express even the brainstorms that seem outlandish (but you just know have potential) = something I continually remind myself.
  • Curiosity: Four years of college augmented a curiosity in me… a curiosity to keep learning, to keep asking questions, to want to know more more more, to get to the bottom of things, to strike up discussion with people passionate about things you are not or never thought about. College helped me to become a sincerely interested person. This life skill has really come alive at my job. From the beginning, I’ve had an open mind about everything I’ve learned about the industry, and completely surprised myself by how invested I am in my job, team, and company. If you asked me years ago if I’d be interested in the field I’m working in now, I would have probably said a definite NO. And even in the beginning, I wasn’t sure I would be. But thanks in part to curiosity, I am so content and eager to keep learning and understanding and to continue being passionate about the work my company does.

And one of the best aspects of these skills? I can continue mastering them by experiences at work and outside work.

I’m of the belief that I can always, always keep getting better at these things if I work hard and seek the advice and mentoring of others.

Another great aspect?

Even the littlest of gains in any of these skills is extremely rewarding.

The final takeaway: YOU CAN DO WHATEVER IT IS YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CAREER!

Please never think that whatever you majored in somehow limits what you can do… because it’s all about being passionate, savvy, curious, positive, intelligent, and a go-gettah, and it’s all about the basic skills you’ve had to work for in college and even before that. (At least in my opinion and from a time or two around the block in my relatively short career…). Never think it will be too late to change jobs, change course, go back to school for a different degree or master’s, and/or try something drastically but excitingly new. Continue searching for something that makes you happy, fulfilled, and challenged each day. Allow yourself to fall into place. Begin with an open mind. Surprise yourself.

Do work.

Have you found that the skills you learned in college set you up well for your job, even if you weren’t expecting it to? Share your experiences with me!

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In 2012

2012 was so, so good to me.

It’s amazing what can happen even in a single day, week, or month… so a lot, a lot, a lot can happen in the span of 12 months. And most of the happenings were GREAT.

Most days this year I felt like I should knock on wood about my life. It’s just a good one.

It’s probably cliché to say this has been even better than the last, but it just was. What I loved most about it was accomplishing small, quiet feats, spending so much time with my family and friends, making new lifelong friends, living and loving the best version of myself, gaining more confidence in my professional life, becoming a more patient and humble person, enjoying hundreds of hours running outside, finding happiness and gratefulness in the littlest things, and, of course, mastering my own homemade pizza recipe.

For sure there were a bad days and sad days and embarrassing moments and races I bombed and times I wondered why I’m still living at home and days I made mistakes and days I fell down… like the other day when I tripped and fell flat on my face in the middle of South Station and hugged the floor for a good 30 seconds.

Ohhhh, that happened too.

And yet I have to come back around and quote Lincoln: If we magnified our success as much as we magnified our disappointments, we’d be much happier. And I quote Json: When it seems like dark clouds are following ya, know that every rain makes the trees grow. 

Right! Gotta keep lookin’ up and accentuate the positive.

Accordingly. In 2012, I…

+ got a job in January, after being unemployed for 4 months.

+ got promoted (!!!) just a couple weeks ago.

+ surprised myself with how much I like what I do at work and what my team and company accomplishes… the reward for going in with an open mind.

+ leased a car, my first that was all my own to drive and pay for.

+ learned how to drive on the highway and not freak the heck out.

+ learned how to occupy myself during hours in the car… if you’re looking for car-friendly dance choreography to everything from Jay-Z to Mat Kearney to Enya, I’m your girl.

+ learned how to be patient… in many different ways, such as patient in stop-and-go traffic for 20 miles and patient in waiting for decisions to be made.

+ vacationed in St. Pete, Florida with my family for Easter… 5 days in the sun, by the pool and the beach, with brunch every morning, with my favorite people.

+ ran a 2:07 half marathon, taking 5 minutes off of my PR.

+ ran a 1:34 10-miler, taking 11 minutes off my PR.

+ ran a 27:22 5k, taking 2 minutes off my PR… even though that one’s got to go real soon.

+ walked the majority of a marathon and though I cursed every step, I finished.

+ ran for 30 days straight… accidentally.

+ ran a lot 50-mile weeks… accidentally.

+ ran in just a sports bra and shorts.

+ hit 1,000 miles for the year. 1,275 total… all on the roads, in the great outdoors.

+ did a lot of reflection on running.

+ got stronger, physically and mentally.

+ enjoyed The Life in Lake Sunapee, New Hampshire many times with my whole family.

+ made a lot of homemade pizzas.

+ made a lot of pizza jokes and jokes in general.

+ visited New York City.

+ turned 25.

+ wrote about being in the professional world in my twenties.

+ wrote about reassuring myself it’s OK to do the crazy things I do.

+ curated many playlists.

+ got an iPhone… and exercised my artsy itch and instagrammed ~900 pictures… whoa.

+ fell in love with Whole Foods… the music, the free samples, the ambiance, the food choices that inspire me to be health conscious… it’s an exciting place… especially on a pre-long run Friday night.

+ realized how much I love where I’m from.

+ continued to pay my student loans.

+ started saving to move into Boston… soon.

+ grew my hair out to be chopped for Locks of Love… soon.

+ had a lot of heart-to-heart conversations with people in my life who get me.

+ celebrated all my favorite holidays with my family.

There is a lot I want to do and see and discover and work on next year but I’m thinking that this year was so awesome because I didn’t try so hard and didn’t take it all so seriously. Instead, I worked hard, did the right thing, rolled with the punches, celebrated each day in some way, really and truly valued all of the people in my life, and laughed SO much.

It seems to be true that nothing in life happens the way you think it will. But it’s so much better that way… got to believe that something wonderful is always about to happen.

2012′s been one for the books. 2013, I’m comin’ atcha.

What are your 2012 highlights? What are the things you are proud of?

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Happy Christmas Eve!

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A Song for Thoughts

Under the Stars :: Hans Zimmer

The Lion King… continually connecting me to my 7-year old self, the age of sweetness, early signs of ambition, and beautiful innocence.

Still praying…

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Heart So Heavy

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